Always spell check your e-mail and proofread for errors.
Always edit out unnecessary information from a message
you are responding to. Don't just hit the reply button and start typing.
Delete unimportant parts of the e-mail you are responding to and reply
point by point. At the very least edit out e-mail headers and signature
files. Why would you possibly want to have copies of the last 3-4 (or
more) e-mails added to the growing list of back and forth? Edit/delete
what is not necessary for the conversation to continue.
SPAM (junk e-mail). Never, ever, send anyone an
e-mail about anything, (especially your product or service) if the recipient
did not specifically e-mail you for that information. Never follow instructions
from spammers stating to just hit reply to be removed from further
mailings, you have just confirmed you are a LIVE account and your junk
mail will increase exponentially as your address is resold over and over
again.
Help keep flame wars under control. If you receive
a nasty e-mail - don't respond immediately - if at all. Sending e-mail
with extremely foul, threatening, or abusive language is crude. This includes
obscenities, verbal harassment, threats of slander or comments that would
prove offensive based on race, religion, or sexual orientation. Often
people are simply trying to get a rise out of you by writing offensive
messages. This is called trolling. Trolling is the act of sending
or posting messages that are intentionally crafted to enrage or draw someone
into flaming. They are obviously unpleasant comments, brutally untruthful
statements, or words and phrases that we all know to be those that would
instigate a fight if stated in the local pub. The author's mission is
to annoy you no matter what your opinion is. If you don't have something
nice to say, or at the very least sternly professional just hit delete.
Flaming is the act of posting emotionally inflammatory messages,
usually due to a lack of restraint or a short temper. Reviewing what you
plan to write, particularly when you are agitated or upset is an excellent
way to avoid flaming.
Never type in all caps. This is considered yelling
or screaming online
Emoticons. Due to the lack of vocal and nonverbal
clues in e-mail, we often forget that eye contact, tone of voice and body
language, which we take for granted when communicating in person, is not
available in the written word. Use emoticons and acronyms when necessary
to convey your message. If you are joking, include a smiley face
,
if you are sad or upset you can use 
Here are some common emoticons (tilt your head towards
the left to "read" them!
| EMOTICON |
MEANING |
| :-\ |
Undecided user |
| :-p |
User is sticking their tongue out (at
you!) |
| :-)8 |
User is dressed up |
| :-D |
User has a big mouth |
| :-# |
User's lips are sealed |
| :-o |
User is shocked, surprised |
| :-| |
No expression face, "that comment doesn't
phase me" |
| :-& |
User is tongue-tied |
| :-@ |
User is screaming |
| :-)) |
Big Smile or Grin |
| :-c |
Bummed out Smiley |
| :-Q |
Smoker |
| ;-) |
Winking Smiley |
| ]:-}> |
User is a "little devil" |
| |-) |
User is asleep (boredom) |
| @-}--}-- |
A rose |
"Cyber Lingo" or Internet abbreviations. The Internet
is full of cryptic shorthand that makes a point, without having to spell
out every word. The table below shows some common examples. Although these
abbreviations are used mainly in chatrooms, you will find them also used
in e-mail messages.
| Bbl |
be back later |
| Brb |
be right back |
| Btdt |
been there, done that |
| Btw |
by the way |
| Cy |
see ya |
| Imho |
in my humble opinion |
| lol |
Laughing out loud (mild amusement
at a remark) |
| Rofl |
rolling on the floor laughing (strong
amusement at a remark) |
| Ttfn |
ta ta for now |
| Ttyl |
talk to you later |
| Ttys |
talk to you soon |